Safety Tips

Sexual assault can happen to anyone at any time; however, there are some basic ways to help create a safer environment.

Safety when Partying

Go with a group. Arrive together and leave together, and make sure no one is left behind.
Check in with each other so you or your friends do not get stuck alone with someone unfamiliar.
Create a secret signal among your friends to let them know you are ready to leave, or that you are uncomfortable in the setting, so they can come assist you.
Before you get to the party, designate a meeting spot in case your group gets separated. Make sure this spot has good lighting and is in a safe area.
If someone you do not know wants to take you somewhere alone, tell her or him that you would rather stay with your group.

Keep an eye on your drink, and help your friends watch theirs. Only accept drinks from someone you know and trust. Whenever possible, buy yourself or a friend a bottled drink because they are more difficult to tamper with.
Always know the way back home and keep your ears clear of headphones and your hands free of packages or bags.
Have the items you need for a safe night with you. This can be a fully charged cell phone, emergency phone numbers, cab money, or pepper spray.
Don't take shortcuts through potentially dangerous areas. Even if the safest way home is longer, take that route.
Report suspicious behavior, even if you are not being directly threatened.

You are more likely to be sexually assaulted by someone you know. Communicate clearly about how you feel and what you want in a sexual situation. Listen to your partner. Do not rely on body language–stop, ask, and clarify what your partner wants.
Remember that "no" means "no" and that submission is not a "yes." People are not able to consent if under the influence of alcohol, or other drugs.
Remember that a prior sexual encounter with someone does not automatically give permission for future sexual interactions with that person.
Take care of yourself. It is not an effective strategy to assume that someone else is going to protect you.
Remember to look out for each other.
Victims are NEVER to blame for their assault.