How do I deal with anger?
Books
Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, by Harriet Lerner
Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of Anger and Get More Out of Life, by Thomas J. Harbin
Don't Bite the Hook: Finding Freedom from Anger, Resentment, and Other Destructive Emotions, by Pema Chodron